I was driving home from Raleigh, listening to one of my favorite podcasts, “You’re Wrong About” with Sarah Marshall.
The first one I picked was about the D&D Satanic Panic of the 1980s, which I remember well. The second one was about the rise of the tradwife trend. This one really resonated with me. There were several years back when we lived in Brooklyn when I was a stay-at-home dad, grinding wheat I had shipped in from Kansas to make my own flour to bake bread, getting meat and veggies from a CSA, canning vegetables from our backyard garden. It’s never been possible to actually opt out of capitalism, but it’s always tempting to try.
But there’s something equally toxic about the impulse to try to do it all yourself. We progress together, by making connections and building community. While we joke (not really a joke) about starting a commune, it would never succeed by retreating from society. Some days working retail is exhausting, but engaging with the public and living in the world (and displaying our values publicly) is so, so important.
Anyway, if you have an hour or so, listen to this podcast. I think Sarah Marshall is really smart and funny; I learned a lot about the history of kitchens; and I was reminded that while I love crafting and history, going backwards in time is never a good thing.